christmas?

except for the lights, the incessant advertisement and the ceaseless tourists, there are actually very little going on in NY that feels as if it is Christmas. If anything, Thanksgiving seemed like a much bigger thing (even the sales concurs).

still, gf was very happy to be around, showed her a lot of NY although we have yet to hit the museum and clubbing circuit, but in due time.

was watching a show (the devil’s own), and realized that the equivalent of men consummating a friendship with another man (assume straight men) is having been through a ‘drunken-send-friend-home’ episode.

for a man, the supposed clearest indication that his relationship with a woman has solidified is after fornication (well not so for the horny promiscuous types), where the man will know that it is probably the end all.

however for man, it is different, how the hell do we push a level of friendship: from acquaintance to buddy? well, the answer lies when a dude gets wasted and his friend (either drunk or wildly intoxicated) was there to either send his home or laugh at him, whatever, both has the same level of efficacy.

so, after that roaring binge session, the dude(s) will form an inner circle and thereby cementing a friendship that will last until the next drinking session.

All these do bring me to another question: i wonder then what is the equivalent for women? what is the break through ceiling?

is it weeping incomprehensibly while watching some unintelligible korean soap?

is it weeping hand in hand while lamenting the ex bf?

is it weeping hand in hand while being stressed about exams?

is it weeping hand in hand while worrying about that extra 2 kilos of meat on the thigh?

whatever it is, i am pretty sure it has something to do with weeping…